Come Back to Love: A Path to Healing 

Praise for Come Back to Love!

A touching journey towards healing the Mother Wound

Robyn’s work is a timely testament that healing the mother wound is not only possible, but profoundly liberating. She writes with such tenderness and truth that her words stay with you from the first page to the last. At a moment when so many women who’ve been undermothered are seeking guidance and inspiration to create relationships that feel more empowering than their past, Come Back to Love truly delivers.

If you’ve been moving through life carrying an emotional weight that feels all too familiar, this book offers a reminder that you’re not alone—along with practices that blend seamlessly into daily life and a clear Four Gates path to reclaim the love you deserve.

—Shelly Sharon, Hakomi therapist specializing in healing the Mother Wound

Come Back to Love is a rare and courageous book—one that does not rush healing, simplify pain, or offer hollow reassurance. Robyn Vogel writes with the authority of lived experience and the compassion of a true guide. Her Four Gates illuminate the hidden architecture of the heart with clarity, tenderness, and profound wisdom. This book meets the reader exactly where they are—especially in the places they have learned to doubt themselves—and gently leads them home to a love that is real, embodied, and trustworthy. If you have ever wondered whether your heartbreak could become a doorway rather than a dead end, this book will show you that it can.

— Maureen Whitehouse, Award Winning Author and Spiritual Teacher

About the Author

International Love and Intimacy Coach, Robyn Vogel, founder of Come Back to Love® crafts and curates sacred immersive experiences for spiritual seekers to know their greatest capacities and create the epic life they dream of. 

Robyn is a go-to healer for those who are ready to realize their true potential, know they are divine beings, and live unapologetically the epic life they have the power to create.  

She was chosen as a guest expert in the Boston Globe and has been featured in newspapers and magazines as well.  Robyn has been interviewed by Canada’s BBC as an “Expert in the Art of Flirtation” and was on television as a Tantra Expert for the TV program, Sex For Her Health and Happiness.  

Robyn has contributed to Redbook Magazine, has been an Intimacy Expert for several podcasts and summits over the years, is a contributing author, and has been a leader in the field for more than 20 years. Bringing the spiritual back into focus and creating your own life is the exciting result of working with Robyn. 

Robyn has trained therapists, coaches, and counselors, in the Come Back to Love® methodology which brings the emotional and the spiritual together and ends feelings of unworthiness, lack, and disconnection. 

More Praise for Come Back to Love! 

A Book of Memoir, Release, and Renewal 

Journey home to yourself in Come Back to Love, a soul-stirring blend of memoir and practical wisdom that invites you to rediscover life's deepest joys. Through heartfelt storytelling and transformative guidance, Robyn Vogel reveals how the art of letting go opens the way to love, wholeness, and lasting contentment. Each chapter offers hope and fresh insight, guiding readers toward new ways of thinking and being—shifting not only how we meet the world, but also how we hold ourselves in its embrace. With gentle honesty and actionable practices, Come Back to Love is an invitation to step into the flow of life, find peace with the past, and cultivate the crucial courage to let go—so you can return to love, again and again.

—Michael Shandler, Author,  KARMA & KISMET– A Spiritual Quest Across Continents, Cultures, and Consciousness

Beautiful and Brave 

Come Back to Love is a beautiful, brave, and deeply needed guide for anyone who has ever tried to fill the ache of loss with love that never lasts. Robyn Vogel writes with compassion, wisdom, and the kind of authenticity that can only come from having lived what she teaches. Her Four Gates are not just a healing framework—they’re an awakening. This book doesn’t just show you how to find love again; it reminds you that you were never unlovable to begin with.

— Dianne C. Braley, award-winning author of The Silence in the Sound and The Summer Before 

Practical Tools Alongside Deep Insight  

Robyn Vogel's new Come Back to Love book offers a comprehensive healing framework that goes beyond traditional therapy. Her Four Gates -- moving beyond emotion, mind, human experience, and body -- so wonderfully address the layers of work required for genuine transformation.  Vogel integrates IFS therapy, neuroplasticity, and somatic practices to help readers dismantle self-protection blocking real connection. What stands out is her refusal to separate emotional healing from body wisdom and spiritual understanding. For those carrying childhood wounds into adult relationships, she provides practical tools alongside deep insight. This isn't quick-fix self-help—it's foundational work that creates capacity for authentic intimacy and self-love.

— Paul Aaron Travis, Certified Sexologist and School For Love Founder

Alison Moyet’s Love Resurrection includes the line, “We all need a love resurrection, just a little divine intervention.”Robyn Vogel’s Come Back to Love may be exactly the divine intervention many have been searching for. By courageously blending her personal story, evidence-based practices, and a rich spiritual perspective, Vogel makes the process of reopening the heart feel both accessible and grounded. If finding genuine love has ever felt like trying to catch a butterfly in a wind tunnel, Come Back to Love offers a calmer, more conscious path. Through her Four Gates—Emotional Healing, Healing the Mind, Understanding the Soul Journey, and Befriending the Body—Vogel guides readers toward deeper connection and true intimacy.

— Ken Barringer, M.A., LMHC

If you are finally ready to not only have more love in your life, but to deeply receive it, this is the book for you. Come Back to Love: A Path to Healing is like nothing else out there - with heart, inspiration, and an easy-to-follow framework, you’ll get beyond the surface advice out there to be able to shift the life-long patterns & wounds that have stood in your way. This is required reading for anyone who has worried that they will never find love again. 

— Joanna Lindenbaum, founder Applied Depth Institute