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In Robyn's words: 

If I can come back to love anyone can.  I say that because my mother was emotionally abusive and then she died when I was 10 years old.  My father raised me but wasn’t present emotionally (my whole family swept my mom and her ashes under the carpet.)  He died 20 years later when I was 30 years old which was devastating. 

He saw me get married but never met my children.

After being married for 10 years, I got divorced, had a spiritual awakening and found the love of my life.  He died a few years later. 

This personal story of loss is a Come Back to Love triumph….I easily could have ended up dead when I was a teenager but I didn’t because I found just enough love in my friends to keep me alive. And I found some other passions that I loved too much like singing and dancing. I also knew I needed to be here, to stay on the planet. 

For one thing, I have a sister who at the time had special needs, and I knew somewhere in my bones that she needed me. 

I grew up believing that happiness, joy, and deep connection and love were for other people.  I literally thought that.  Until one day it struck me that I could have that too.  My life started to change at that moment. I was 32 years old.

It's been 25 years since that "aha" moment and I've created a life filled with health and well-being (after years of chronic fatigue), an abundance of community, friends, and purposeful amazing work (after only barely surviving financially for years), and last but not nearly least, I have love in my life.

I have so much to share with the world about how to come back to love after loss.....

You're here because you want more love in your life and yet it's not easy, is it?  To love and be loved (especially after loss, trauma, and heartbreak) isn't easy.  

And yet I'm here to tell you that I'm living proof that it's ENTIRELY POSSIBLE! 

I hold sacred space for people to gather and heal together. I invite curiosity, acceptance, a deep spiritual practice, and teach how to bestow love upon yourself and each other. I provide an open-hearted and safe place to explore intimacy, healing, and deep connection. 

I look forward to walking on this path with you.  

With love and great respect,




I am a trauma-informed, Internal Family Systems psychotherapist turned Love and Intimacy Coach with over 25 years experience working with groups and 1-1.  I am a global transformational workshop leader who has worked with over 2000 people.  Heal Your Heart ® is my flagship program that finally gets to the root of how change happens so that singles can FINALLY heal the past and create healthy relationships going forward.  

I shepherd all I work with to return to a loving connection with themselves after loss, heartbreak, and trauma.

In my programs and with my guidance you will heal your heart in a way that you haven't been able to before.  You've likely tried everything but you haven't yet tried the Come Back To Love® Gates Approach.

I have been featured as an expert in the Boston Globe, Redbook Magazine, Digital Romance Inc, Dating Over 40, Sex for Her Health, and Happiness. 


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